Alpha male vs the nice guy!
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The Alpha Male vs. the Nice Guy
Guys this has always been a topic of great discussion and which confuses most men. So Here’s a different perspective on what a man needs to be like; whether it’s the alpha male, the nice guy or a mix of both.
I know you’ve always been told by your mum and your aunts that women love a good guy who gives them everything they want, who is funny and who should always put women first especially if you are into her. I hate to blow your bubble but drop all that crap. Doing all that makes you a wuss and immediately kills any romantic interest a woman should have of you. It actually makes her look at you as a big brother who would always take care of her, nothing more.
This doesn’t mean that we don’t fall for nice guys and don’t want to be spoiled by our men; we do and this is what the alpha man understands. Women need a man who is nice but who gives her things she deserves or has earned.
Yes and i'd add that Alpha males make women work for their affection and in return they award them. A good example can be going to a bar, confidently walk towards a woman and offering to buy her a drink if she promises to give you the best conversation during the course of the drink. This already makes her know that she also has to do something to spend time with you and in that way, it subconsciously tells her you are a nice guy by buying her a drink but also an alpha by making the rule or terms of your engagement.
I’m sure you’ve heard the old phrase good guys finish last. Well, this is not always the case if you play it like the alpha male would. Check this out nice guys will always be ready to share their personal lives with a girl they normally like, bail her out of almost all her problems and ensure she’s as comfortable as she wants to be. The alpha male will only let the lady know what needs to be known and live a good part of his life a mystery.
Iain Myles is an executive dating coach of Kamalifestyles. He's highly experienced in live training of our clients on streets, in bars and clubs. Iain teaches the core principles of the approach that every guy needs to know to become successful in dating.
Gabriella Ryan is Kamalifestyles youtube presenter and she regularly publishes videos on different dating topics on KamaTV. She also takes part in infield training's by helping our dating coaches. She brings the female perspective and gives honest feedback to the clients in relation to what women think in certain situations. Our clients say “her honest feedback into the female mind is very good and shockingly interesting”.
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